Most of the women I work with think they do not have a personal style. But what they actually do not have is language for their personal style yet.
Or they have spent so long dressing reactively—hiding, covering, squeezing into trends—that their sense of personal style has been buried under practicality, pressure, or simply lack of time
Style Confidence
How to Define Your Personal Style
What No One Tells You About Dressing Your New Body
(Spoiler: it is not you that needs to change.)
There is a moment, sometimes subtle, sometimes loud, when your body no longer feels like it used to.
Maybe it crept in quietly after having children.
Maybe it happened almost overnight during perimenopause.
Or maybe it is just the natural, human shifts that come with time, stress, lifestyle changes, or medication.
Whatever the reason, your body has changed. And no one really helped you figure out how to dress it now.
How to Build a Wardrobe That Works for Real Life (Not Just Instagram)
As a personal stylist, I made a conscious decision a long time ago not to focus on ‘shopping hauls’ online. Not because I do not love style, or because I do not want to share what I wear constantly —but because I know how easy it is for that to trigger a cycle I feel very strongly about.
The Hidden Emotional Cost of Dressing Rooms & Online Returns
We do not talk about this enough.
That moment when you are standing in a cramped changing room under harsh lighting, pulling on a dress that looked lovely online, only to feel your heart sink because it clings in all the wrong places. Or worse, it will not zip.