Dressing for special occasions can feel like a minefield—especially when dress codes are vague and you are left guessing what is too much or too little. Whether it is a wedding, communion, confirmation, or christening, the goal is always the same: feeling confident, comfortable, and stylish while respecting the formality of the event.
Wedding Dress Codes: What to Wear & What to Avoid
Casual / Wedding Abroad
Think: relaxed yet put-together.
- Wear: A midi or knee-length dress, a chic jumpsuit, or a co-ord set in light fabrics and soft florals.
- Avoid: Anything too short, tight, or club-like. Also, denim is a no-go unless specifically stated in the invite.
Semi-Formal Wedding (Most Common in Ireland)
Think: polished but not over-the-top.
- Wear: A midi dress, tailored jumpsuit, or trouser suit in luxe fabrics. This is your chance to play with colour or prints—bold block colours and beautiful florals both work well.
- Avoid: Super casual fabrics (like cotton sundresses)
Formal or Black-Tie Wedding
Think: elegance and structure.
- Wear: A long gown, structured midi, or an ultra-chic trouser suit in a deep or classic colour palette (navy, emerald, burgundy, or soft pastels). If in doubt, monochrome always looks expensive.
- Avoid: Anything too casual or overly flashy—think, clubwear, or anything too revealing.
The One Time You Can Wear White
Wearing white to a wedding is a strict no-no—unless it is your own. But race days, christenings, and other family occasions? That is a whole different story. White can look incredibly chic and polished for day events, so if you have always wanted to try an all-white or cream ensemble, this is your chance! Just maybe avoid red wine and damp grass.
Family Occasions: Christenings, Communions & Confirmations
Family gatherings have a more modest dress code, but that does not mean you cannot look stylish and feel amazing. These are daytime events, often involving a church service, so elegance and appropriateness are key.
What to Wear to a Christening, Communion, or Confirmation
- A midi dress in soft pastels, florals, or neutrals is always a winner.
- A structured jumpsuit is a modern alternative that feels effortless yet elevated.
- A chic trouser suit can work beautifully, especially in lighter shades.
- Keep necklines, hemlines, and fabrics classy—nothing too low-cut, short, or sheer.
Pro Tip: If you are wearing a printed dress, pull one or two colours from the print for your accessories—it will make your outfit look instantly polished.
Jumpsuits & Trouser Suits: Effortless, Elegant & Comfortable
Not a fan of dresses? Jumpsuits and trouser suits are chic, comfortable, and easy to style.
Best Jumpsuit Styles for Your Shape:
- Wide-leg jumpsuits = great for pear-shaped and hourglass figures.
- Tailored jumpsuits with a cinched waist = perfect for rectangles, ovals, or petite frames.
- V-neck jumpsuits = ideal for balancing a fuller bust.
Best Trouser Suit Styles for Your Shape:
- Straight-leg trousers with a fitted blazer = elongate the frame and balance curves.
- Wide-leg trousers with a belted blazer = perfect for creating a defined waist.
- Cropped trousers with a boxy blazer = modern and chic for a sleek silhouette.
What to Wear if It’s Cold or There’s a Ceremony
Irish weather is predictably unpredictable—and if you are heading to a church ceremony, you will likely want some coverage.
Layering Without Losing Style
- A tailored blazer over your dress instantly pulls a look together.
- A chic wrap or structured coat keeps things elegant without overwhelming your outfit.
- Avoid cardigans—they can take the polish out of a look.
Footwear Considerations
- Outdoor weddings? Avoid stilettos that will sink into the grass—opt for block heels or wedges.
- Long day ahead? Make sure your heels are broken in—or bring foldable flats for later!
Final Thoughts: Style That Feels Like You
No matter the dress code, the most important thing is that you feel comfortable and confident. The best outfit is not about following trends—it is about knowing what suits you, what makes you feel good, and what allows you to enjoy the day without adjusting your outfit every five minutes.
If you have any questions or there are other style roadblocks you are experiencing, feel free to email me, I would love to help and your replies really do make my day.
Nichola xx