Does anyone else ever feel like this? What you once knew or understood about your style and what you loved to wear, just did not seem to feel right anymore.
Maybe you know the feeling? You go to grab an outfit that used to be a go-to, and instead of feeling great, you feel uncomfortable, out of place, or just… not yourself.
I see this all the time.
It happens in so many different seasons of life—having a baby, changing careers, stepping into a new phase, or even just that moment when you realise your old style doesn’t match the person you’ve grown into.
And if you’re anything like me (or the women I work with every day), it’s not just about clothes. It’s about confidence and your identity,
Why Do Life Changes Mess With Our Style?
Because style isn’t just about fashion—it’s about who you are and how you feel.
When big shifts happen in life—like:
- Becoming a mum and realising your pre-baby wardrobe doesn’t work anymore.
- Hitting a phase where events (weddings, work functions, special occasions) suddenly feel overwhelming to shop for.
- Moving into a new job or role where you want to look polished but still like you.
- Entering midlife and wondering What even suits me anymore? Women who have recently gained or lost weight but feel completely lost in their new shape—worried about dressing too young, too old, or just not knowing how to feel confident in their body again.
And I completely understand why these transitions feel so hard—because style is personal. It’s not just about clothes; it’s about how you feel in them. And when your body, life, or confidence shifts, your style needs to shift with it, because what worked before might not work now—but that doesn’t mean you can’t feel stylish, put together, and confident. It just means you need a new approach.
For so many of the women I work with, the real struggle isn’t just the clothes—it’s the fear of getting it wrong.
What if I look frumpy?
How do I dress my new shape with confidence?
Can I still look stylish at this stage of life?
Why do none of my old clothes feel like me anymore?
How I Help Women Find Their Style Again
Everyday, I work with women going through these exact transitions—women who are trying to figure out what suits them now, what actually works for their lifestyle, and how to shop without wasting money on things that don’t feel right.
Just an example of some of My Styling Services:
✔️ The Understanding Your Style Package – Perfect if you feel lost in your wardrobe and don’t know where to start. We go through what works for you, what doesn’t, and how to make shopping so much easier. (This alone will save you money on bad purchases!)
✔️ Dress Hire for Special Occasions – If you’re suddenly in a season of back-to-back weddings, events, or new social situations, hiring a dress takes all the stress out of it—you get to look amazing without the commitment (or cost) of buying something you’ll only wear once.
✔️ One-to-One Styling Sessions – Need personalised help? My sessions are all about you, your body shape, and your wardrobe needs—so you leave feeling confident in your style.
All my packages can be done in person or virtually, so no matter where you are based, I would love to help you feel a little more like the old you.
Real Women, Real Style Transformations
I recently worked with a client, who had just gone back to work after maternity leave. She told me she was standing in front of her wardrobe every morning feeling frustrated. Nothing fit quite right, and everything she used to wear before kids suddenly felt wrong.
We worked together to:
✨ Find pieces that suited her now, rather than trying to force her old style to work.
✨ Refine her colour palette so everything in her wardrobe mixed and matched effortlessly.
✨ Build a small, wearable wardrobe so she didn’t feel the need to shop constantly just to “fix” things.
Her message after? "For the first time in ages, I actually feel excited about getting dressed again!"
That’s why I do this. Because style should feel good.
If You’re in a Style Rut, Here’s What to Do
💡 Step 1: Look at your wardrobe and ask yourself—what do I love wearing? What feels like me?
💡 Step 2: Pay attention to why you love those pieces. (Is it the fit? The fabric? The way they make you feel?)
💡 Step 3: If you’re feeling stuck, I’m here to help! Whether it’s a styling session, a wardrobe refresh, or even just hiring a dress that makes you feel amazing, I’d love to help you navigate this phase with confidence.
Life changes, but your style can change with it—in a way that still feels like you.
Need a little help figuring it all out? Click [here] to learn more about my styling services, or just send me a message—I’d love to chat!
Nichola xx